Hey, I’m Frawley! I’m a queer and neurodivergent nonbinary person, and I go by they/them pronouns. I use this blog to share thoughts on issues that are important to me—mostly queer issues and neurodiversity.

I call myself aro, ace, gay, queer, or maybe other things depending on how I’m feeling. I’m also polyamorous and a relationship anarchist.

As for my neurodivergence, I’m autistic and bipolar. Please don’t tell me I have “mild” autism—my autism is actually quite spicy.

I also run Ace Archive, an online archive of asexual and aromantic history.

If you want to shoot me a message to make a suggestion, ask a question, leave a comment, or get it touch for any other reason, you can email me at [email protected]. I love hearing from folks, so don’t hesitate to reach out!

If you find this site inaccessible or difficult to use, please contact me by email or by opening an issue on GitHub (whichever is easiest for you) and I’ll get it fixed.