Hey, I’m Frawley! I’m a queer and neurodivergent non-binary person, and I go by they/them pronouns. I use this blog to share thoughts on issues that are important to me—mostly queer issues and neurodiversity.
I call myself aro, ace, bi, gay, quoiro, or maybe other things depending on how I’m feeling. I consider my orientation to be queer, and beyond that the labels aren’t too important to me. I’m also non-monogamous and a relationship anarchist.
As for my neurodivergence, I’m autistic and bipolar. Please don’t tell me I have “mild” autism—my autism is actually quite spicy.
I also run Ace Archive, a project to build an online archive for preserving asexual history.
I’m a software engineer by day, which is why I spend more time fiddling with this site than I do actually writing stuff for it.
If you want to shoot me a message to make a suggestion, ask a question, leave a comment, or get it touch for any other reason, you can email me at: