Hey, I’m Frawley! I’m a queer and neurodivergent non-binary person, and I go by they/them pronouns. I use this blog to share thoughts on issues that are important to me—mostly queer issues and neurodiversity.
I’m asexual and aromantic, although if you’re queer I might tell you I’m actually quoiromantic. I’m also polyamorous and a relationship anarchist.
As for my neurodivergence, I’m anxious and autistic. Please don’t tell me I have “mild” autism—my autism is actually quite spicy.
I also run Ace Archive, a project to build an online archive for preserving asexual history.
If you want to shoot me a message to make a suggestion, ask a question, leave a comment, or get it touch for any other reason, you can email me at: