About

Frawley (they/them)

Hey, I’m Frawley! I’m a queer and neurodivergent non-binary person, and I go by they/them pronouns. I use this blog to share thoughts on issues that are important to me—mostly queer issues and neurodiversity.

I’m asexual and aromantic, although if you’re queer I might tell you I’m actually quoiromantic. I’m also polyamorous and a bit of a relationship anarchist.

As for my neurodivergence, I’m anxious and autistic. Please don’t tell me I have “mild” autism—my autism is actually quite spicy.

By day I’m a software engineer, both professionally and as a hobby.