Hey, I’m Frawley! I’m a queer and neurodivergent non-binary person, and I go by they/them pronouns. I use this blog to share thoughts on issues that are important to me—mostly queer issues and neurodiversity.
I call myself aro, ace, bi, gay, quoiro, or maybe other things depending on how I’m feeling. I consider my orientation to be queer, and beyond that the labels aren’t too important to me. I’m also non-monogamous and a relationship anarchist.
As for my neurodivergence, I’m autistic and bipolar. Please don’t tell me I have “mild” autism—my autism is actually quite spicy.
I also run Ace Archive, a project to build an online archive for preserving asexual history.
I’m a software engineer by day, which is why I spend more time fiddling with this site than I do actually writing stuff for it.
On that note, if you find this site inaccessible or difficult to use, please contact me by email or by opening an issue on GitHub (whichever is easiest for you) and I’ll get it fixed.
If you want to shoot me a message to make a suggestion, ask a question, leave a comment, or get it touch for any other reason, you can email me at: